All posts by Alpha Igogo

Jokate Mwegelo: Kitu cha kwanza awe na hofu ya Mungu!

Wow! Nimefurahije!! Nilikwenda kwa YouTube kutafuta video fulani ya Jokate (zile za kuwa mgeni rasmi shule ya Mugabe, please Jojo ziweke kwa YouTube) nikakutana hii short interview kati ya MCL Extra na Jokate. Ni interview fupi lakini nimeipendaje sasa!! Jokate anasema anatamani sana kuwa na familia and she can't wait for it to happen! Na kuwa mwanaume anaye mpenda kitu cha kwanza lazima awe na hofu ya Mungu! ......... Well, kwanza pole sana Jokate kwa kuuguliwa na baba, mkono wa Mungu wa uponyaji uwe naye, na amani ya Bwana iwazunguke wote. Pili, Safi kabisa kumtaka mwanaume ambaye ana hofu ya Mungu siyo tu ya mdomoni bali kwa matendo yake! Mwanaume ambaye atakuwa teyari kwa hiyari yake kusema tupige magoti tuombe! Siyo wewe ndio umlazimishe kusali. Unataka mwanaume ambaye mkipata shida atasema tumkimbilie Mungu siyo waganga wa kienyeji na dini za mazingaombwe! Kama mapenzi ya Mungu basi akupe mwanaume mwenye imani sawa na wewe! Sikatai wapo watu walio owana wa imani tofauti lakini lazima tukubali kuwa hakuna kitu kigumu kama kulea watoto katika imani mbili tofauti!! Pia ukiomba mwambie Mungu akupe mwanaume ambaye hayupo kwenye spotlight sana kama wewe (Yani asiwe mtu wa kutafuta followers na likes kwenye social media) someone in a corporate world siyo siasa wala entertainment industry! Someone with strong family values kama wewe. Anayependa na kujali ndugu zake kwani huyo atakuwa anaelewa nini maana ya familia. Ukiona mwanaume kaowa au kafanikiwa kidogo tu halafu ndugu zake kawabwaga muogope kama ukoma! Something must be seriously wrong somewhere! Na huyo mwanaume awe mkarimu and fun to be around, Nani anataka mwanaume mwenye gubu?! Au kutwa kuvimbisha masharubu kama chura ?? ..... I strongly believe Mungu atakupa very soon! You're such a phenomenal young lady with a bright future! Tena akubariki uzao wako wa kwanza uwe mapacha wa kike na kiume ????? babysitter nipo ??

Mungu awe nawe Lulu a.k.a Elizabeth! Pole sana mama Kanumba!

Nimenyama na hili swala la Lulu siyo kwamba simpendi au namtakia mabaya, hapana! Hili ni swala sensitive sanaaaaaaa! Pia kwenye familia yetu right this very moment tunapitia kitu ambacho karibia kinafanana na hili swala la Lulu japo mdogo wangu haikuwa swala la mapenzi na bado hajafariki!!  Yupo kwenye koma wiki ya tatu sasa anapumulia mashine!! Hivyo, nimejaribu kuvaa viatu vya Lulu kwakweli vimenibada mno! Napia nilipojaribu kuvaa viatu vya mama Kanumba kwakweli vimekuwa ni vikubwa sana havinienei! Kwa maneno hayo, nimeamua kunyamaza na kuomba Mungu kuwa hekima itumike zaidi! Mungu ampe huyo Judge hekima na kuzingatia mambo yote kwani hata Lulu naye ni victim. Bila kusahau kuwa Lulu alisha kaa ndani / jela karibia miaka miwii, kama ataweza ampe hata kifungo cha nje! ………..Mungu awe nanyi nyote poleni sana.

Faraja Nyalandu: Matokeo yake, wengi wao leo hii wana hii tabia pia, hawavunji tu ‘kibubu’ kwasababu imetokea harambee ya ghafla ya kumchangia binamu fulani.

“Nimeamua kufuatilia rafiki zangu waliolelewa na wazazi wafanyabiashara, kutunza hela sio tu ni muhimu ilikuwa lazima. Walikuwa wanaambiwa hawana hela kwasababu zishawekwa kwenye savings au kuongezwa kwenye mtaji. Walijifunza kwa maneno na vitendo, na maumivu of course. Matokeo yake, wengi wao leo hii wana hii tabia pia, hawavunji tu ‘kibubu’ kwasababu imetokea harambee ya ghafla ya kumchangia binamu fulani. Ila hii ni tabia, mtu yoyote anaweza kuwa nayo. Tuanze kuwafundisha watoto wetu kutunza hela. Kutunza faida. Kutunza nyongeza (hata kuitengeneza nyongeza). Njoo @nmbtanzania – mfungulie Chipukizi au Mtoto akaunti #NMBKaribuYako P. S This video for #NMBWajibu is coming soon” Faraja Nyalandu——

Linda Bezuidenhout: I’m here screaming all the way from Atlanta to Tanzania.

Designer alieshinda tunzo nyingi sana za kimataifa hapa Marekani Ms. Linda Bezuidenhout asherekea kwa kishindo cha sauti kuu kufurahia siku ya kuzaliwa Rais wa Tanzania Mh. Dr. John Pombe Magufuli kitu ambacho kimewashangaza baadhi ya watu kuwa imekuwaje kwani yeye ni mwana Chadema damu damu!! Linda amejibu kwa kusema kuwa adui ya adui yako huyo ni rafiki yako! Embu Soma hapo chini ??

Nami nasema ni vyema sana kwa Linda kufanya hivyo kwani siasa sio chuki wala uwadui! Wakati wa campaign umeshakwisha embu watu waweke siasa chini tujenge nchi! Ameshachaguliwa ni Rais wetu tumpe ushirikiano kwa manufaa ya taifa letu. Kama hatumtaki basi usikose kwenye kupiga kura 2020……..Mungu atusaidie!

Zarinah Hassan: We have been created so different, the type of humans who can multi task

“There is so much in a woman that most people don’t know. We have been created so different, the type of humans who can multi task. A man can watch a game and not hear what one said while a woman can watch a movie and still hear, still know the stove is on, and so on (the list is endless). So here is to all the multi tasking women juggling through life as mothers, wives, momprenuers aka business women, caregivers and many more. You are appreciated! It’s all about knowing what comes 1st #prioritize. Salute? help me tag one woman who inspires you. @lukambaofficial ?” ——-Zarinah Hassan

Mr and Mrs Mkandamizaji

“About last night with my 1 and ONLY Monica. Ni katika harusi mtu mfupi ya JOT!! Shukran KAMILI Kwa Dada Yangu wa ukweli @isariaclothingboutique @isariaclothingboutique Kumnogesha Msukuma wangu?? #JamaniMsukumaRutubaImemkubaliiiMweeeeeh?????????# #HiiInaitwaMboleaYaKukuzia#” ~~~~~ Masanja

Masanja mkandamizaji na Monica wake! Wamependeza sana! Hongereni kwa hiyo zawadi aliyobeba Monica tumboni mwake. Mungu awajalie ajifungue salama na mtoto mwenye afya njema!…..sijui nitabiri ?? natabiri mtoto wa Kiume ??

 

Hongera sana Mh. Nicholaus B.William!

Rais wa Jamhuri ya Muungano wa Tanzania Dkt John Pombe Magufuli akimpongeza Mhe Nicholaus B. William aliyemuapisha kuwa Naibu Katibu Mkuu Wizara ya Habari, Utamaduni, Sanaa na Michezo Ikulu jijini Dar es salaam leo Oktoba 28, 2017. Kulia ni mke wa Mhe. William Bi. Foster Mbuna.
Napenda kuchukua nafasi hii kumpongeza sana Mh. Nicholaus B. William kwa kuteuliwa kwake kuwa Naibu Katibu Mkuu Wizara ya Habari, Utamaduni, na Michezo. Sijawahi kukutana nawe lakini sifa zako nyingi nilizipata kutoka kwa mdogo wangu Advocate Janeth O.O Igogo jinsi ulivyo mnyenyekevu, usiye jikwenza, mchapa kazi, na muungwana. Tabia yako ya kujiona wewe ni sawa na wengine inawavutia na kuwaacha wengi kujiuliza jinsi mlivyo lelewa. Kweli kuwa mtoto wa Rais hakubadili tabia ya mtu kwani tabia ya mtu ni mtu mwenyewe! Mimi naamini hayo yote ni matunda ya kuwa na walezi wazuri na mke mwema! Hivyo nategemea hakuna kitu kubadilika zaidi ya uongozi bora toka kwao! Hongera sana. #VijanaTunaweza

Mungu ibariki Tanzania. Mungu ibariki Africa

**Picha na caption kwa hisani ya Issa Michuzi blog. Kwa maelezo na picha zaidi bonyeza ?? (MichuziBlog-Matukio)**

When your babybrother surprises you!

Yesterday morning (E.A time) Sir O.O Igogo gave  a surprise visit to his sister who lives in Pida village a.k.a SabaSaba in Butiama, Mara region while on his way to Utegi village to handle some family business………May God keep blessing them forever and ever Amani! ?❤

Happy birthday President Dr. Magufuli!

Kheri ya siku yakuzaliwa kwako Rais wetu Dr. John Pombe Magufuli! Mwenyezi Mungu mwenye wingi wa rehema akuzidishie mibaraka yake, hekima na busara nyingi ili ukapate uwezo wa kuliongoza taifa la Tanzania katika upendo na amani! Happy birthday mzee wa #HapaKaziTu

Muwe na weekend njema!

Nawatakieni weekend njema. Sorround yourself with true love!…. Nimependa hii picha ya Chibu’s family na video yao ndio maana nime share nanyi!

Tamar Braxton amekwenda mahakamani kuomba talaka!

Nashindwa kuelewa ni kitu gani huwa kinatokea, ndani ya miezi michache watu wanakataa kabisa kuwa ndoa yao ipo sawa na hizo rumors ni maneno tu yamtaani!! Wanathubutu hata kumtaja Mungu!! Halafu hamjakaa sawa mnasikia wame file for divorce kuwa wameshindwana! Sasa najiuliza why lying!?! Kama ndoa inamatatizo si unasema tu, kuwa ndoa yetu haipo sawa lakini we are working on it, just pray for us!! Kuliko kudanganya!! Kama hapo ?kwenye video Tamar na mumewe walivyo jieleza kwenye Wendy Williams show mwezi wa tatu mwaka huu embu wasikilize

Kana kwamba hiyo haitoshi hata mwezi uliopita alipo ulizwa akasema yupo teyari kufanya chochote kile kulinda ndoa yake. Na hivyo kitu chakwanza ambacho anafanya ili kuokoa ndoa yake ni kuachana na "showbiz business" ataacha kutengeneza album za nyimbo mpya! Sasa within 30 days inakuwaje mtu huyo huyo ndio anakuwa wakwanza kudai talaka ??  I don't get it!.......

Lakini ukiangalia kwaundani utagundua huyu Tamar kuacha kuimba siyo kwasababu alikuwa anataka kuokoa ndoa yake bali ni njia ya kumuondoa mumewe kuwa Manager na producer wake. Kama mnakumbuka how Lady JayDee alivyo mfanyia Captain Garnder Habash ?? smart lady huh! .......Jamani let your husband be your husband! Mambo ya mumeo kuwa Manager wako kwakweli naona ndoa nyingi zinavunjika ni wachache mno wamefanikiwa. Labda kama huyo mumeo hachukui pesa yoyote kwenye hiyo production yako. Your husband / wife is your business partner and advicer but not someone to manage you everyday, no no! You can only meet at the board meetings or kwenye weekly business meeting. Lakini kila mtu awe na ofisi yake na wafanyakazi wake nafikiri kwa njia hii itapunguza tension fulani zisizo na ulazima!

https://youtu.be/qgNAASByIg4

Halafu pia kitu ambacho nimeona wanandoa wengi ambao wako kwenye the same industry ndoa zao hazidumu au zinakuwa na matatizo sana. Kwamfano, hapa Tamar ni muimbaji na reality TV star wakati mume wake ni producer mkubwa kwenye music na TV show hivyo wote wapo kwenye spotlight na mzunguko wa watu hao hao kila wakati! Lazima wanandoa wawe makini sana mnapokuwa kwenye maswala ya business ili ndoa yenu iwe na amani.  Sasa Tamar na Vince walipo owana hawakupeana "prenuptial agreements" kwani walikubaliana kuwa divorce is NOT an option! Sasa pale divorce inapokuwa ni the only option sijui itakuwaje kwani Tamar anataka full custody ya mtoto wao na pia anasema Vince asipewe spouse support. Kumbuka wakati Tamar anaolewa na Vince, Vince ndio alikuwa anatengeneza pesa nyingi lakini baadaye Tamar akawa super star na kutengeneza pesa nyingi zaidi ya Vince hivyo sasa itabidi Tamar amlipe Vince pesa za kujikimu baada ya divorce..... Vince ni yatima na kwao alizaliwa mwenyewe hivyo hana ndugu wa tumbo moja wala wazazi! So sad!

Couple nyingine ambayo imeshangaza watu ni ya huyu mwanadada wa The Real talk show ?? Jeanie Mai na mumewe Fredy! Hapa mwanamke ndiye aliyesema kuwa yeye hataki kuwa na watoto kwani haoni kama atakuwa mama mzuri kwani kulea kiumbe kingine na kumfanya awe ni kiumbe bora is a tough job ambayo yeye hawezi. Pia kwasasa yupo busy na "carrier" yake wakati mumewe anataka wazae watoto kitu ambacho hawezi fanya. Kutokana na history yake ya kutoka kwenye familia duni wazazi wake waliangaika sana wakaja Marekani kutafuta maisha bora haswa kwa watoto wao. Hivyo kuwa na watoto kuta slow down dream zake ambazo yeye na wazazi wake wameteseka sana kuzipata. Nabado kuna watu masikini kwenye familia yake ambao anaona kuwa anawajibu wa kuwasaidia hivyo kuleta watoto duniani itakuwa ni mzigo mwingine wa watu wanao mtegemea! Hayo ni maisha ya Marekani kule kwetu Africa masikini ndio wanazaa zaidi ya matajiri wanajua mjomba/ baba mdogo au shangazi atawalea tu bila shida ??

Hivi, mimi nashindwa kuelewa hivi dunia hii kunawatu wanaowana bila kujadili kama wanataka watoto au hapana!! Hivi si vitu vinajadiliwa kabla hata ya kuchumbiana au mie ndio sijui ?? nielewesheni ?? mie I would love to know what am I signing up for, sorry naogopa sana kujifunga kitanzi mwenyewe! Naogopa surprises .........Kumbuka Tamar Braxton alikuwa kwenye show hii kabla ya ufukuzwa mwaka jana!

 

Ziara ya Balozi Wilson Masilingi jijini Houston,Texas

Wiki iliyopita tarehe 21 na 22 mwezi huu wa kumi, Balozi wa Tanzania nchini Marekani, na Mexico alitembelea jimbo la Houston, katika state ya Texas ili kuwafariji Watanzania waliopatwa na maafa ya mafuriko ya Hurricane Harvey mwishoni mwa mwezi wa nane!

Mh. Balozi Masilingi

Balozi pia alikutana na viongozi wa jumuiya na kukutana na wanajumuiya wote nakubadilisha mawazo, kutoa muongozo katika maswala yanayohusu Diaspora. Kwa maelezo na picha zaidi bonyeza ?? (TanzanianHoustonCommunity-THC)

 

Mpende akupendae…….!

Mpende akupendae asiyekupenda achana naye! Acheni wenye ndoa zao halali wajishaue babu! Kwa raha zao ??

LeMutuz: cha ajabu ni wasiokuwa na akili kabisa ndio katika hii new generation wanakuwa maarufu sana na kukubalika sana na Public

EXTRA LIVE STRAIGHT TALK:- ...Mwanamke Shujaa ...Mwanamke Jasiri ...Miss Tanzania 1999 na Balozi Maalum wa Umoja wa Mataifa Tanzania @hoycetemu ...unfortunately Dunia inapitia transition ya One Generation to another .....in our new generation ni Wadada wasiokuwa na Maadili, wasiokuwa na heshima, Wanaogombania waume za watu in the Public, wanaotembea nusu uchi, wanaojua kutukana sana matusi in the public, wasiokuwa na pa kuishi, wasiokuwa na kazi, na cha ajabu ni wasiokuwa na akili kabisa ndio katika hii new generation wanakuwa maarufu sana na kukubalika sana na Public Ila sio tena wadada wanaojitambua kama wewe ambaye una Mume, una Familia, una kazi inayojulikana, unapigana kusaidia Jamii, una pa kuishi pazuri, unaheshimika kwa jamii inayokuzunguka una elimu kubwa ....Wadada wenye Maisha kama wewe hushambuliwa left and right na Wadada wasiokuwa na Maisha ambao hushangiliwa sana na Public ya wasiokuwa na Maisha kama washambuliaji ...yakikutokea hayo ya kushambuliwa na our "DEAD LIVING DOGS" usijali kumbuka hata kwenye Biblia Wana wa Israel walipopewa Choice ya kuchagua nani asulubiwe kati ya binadam mwenye Maisha Yesu au yule Jambazi asiyekuwa na Maisha Barnabas walimchagua Jambazi asiyekuwa na Maisha kama wao ndio maaa hata leo Dada mwenye Maisha kama wewe anashambuliwa na wasiokuwa na Maisha na wanaoshangiliwa na wasiokuwa na Maisha wenzao USISHANGAE WALIMFANYIA HATA YESU ...kumbuka siku zote kuwa UKISHANGILIWA NA MUNGU lazima utachukiwa na Shetani ambaye ana watu wengi sana hapa Duniani ila endelea kupigana kukubaliwa na Mungu na kuwa mfano kwa Jamii....Salute @hoycetemu I LOVE U MY SUPER SISTER! - le Mutuz

Dina Marios: Usifanye makosa ukaangalia safari ya mwenzako

Subira na Uvumilivu ni muhimu sana katika safari ya kukimbiza ndoto zetu na mafanikio yetu.

Ni muhimu kukubali kuwa matokeo mazuri ya juhudi zetu hayaji kwa haraka au Papo kwa papo. Lakini wakati ukipitia hatua muhimu ndogo ndogo za matokeo madogo madogo jua upo tayari njiani. Inawezekana unajua au hujui sababu wewe ni aina ya watu mnaotaka matokeo mazuri hapo hapo. Kuna aina ya watu wao hutaka matokeo ya juhudi zao hapo hapo…unataka yes hapo hapo…na ukikosa ni rahisi kuwa discouraged na kukata tamaa moja kwa moja.Kwa nini imekataliwa?kwa nini haijatoboza kama nilivyotaka?basi hili jambo naachana nalo…basi sitaki tena…mimi sio bora.

Na kuna watu wao ni kama marathoners wakimbia mbio ndefu. Anakimbia umbali mrefu km kadhaa lakini mdogo mdogo mpaka afikie finishing line.Njiani ataanguka,atasikia kiu, lakini amefocus kwenye finishing line yake.

Subira/Patience ni muhimu sanaa wanasema safari ya miles 1000 huanza na hatua moja. Ijue safari yako iwapo ni ndefu na inayohitaji hatua nyingi tena za taratibu au la.

Usifanye makosa ukaangalia safari ya mwenzako mbona fulani nimeanza nae juzi tu yeye kashafika? yeye kashafanikiwa? Ukaacha njia yako nakuanza kufata ya kwake…utapotea.

It’s owkey wakati mwingine kuanguka, lakini usikate tamaa…..Rise Up tena ukiwa na ari ya kufanikisha zaidi na zaidi.

Subira……..Uvumilivu kama haunao anza kuufanyia mazoezi ni muhimu sana.

Good Morning!
Dina Marios

                                              ***Baadhi ya maoni***

RARE Magazine yatumia page mbili kuandika ‘Bio’ ya LB!

Kwakutumia social media accounts zake Linda Bezuidenhout alielezea furaha yake na kumshukuru Mungu kwa mibaraka hiyo kama unavyosomekahapa chini ? “Wow! Please zoom to read my bio and all the achievements Thanks to God Alhamdulilah ??. My bio keeps growing we now need 2 pages to complete all the awards and achievements WOW! The RARE Magazine based in NY used 2 pages just for my bio and other pages for my designs….. please if you haven’t seen the cover of the magazine with an LB dress go to @linda_bezuidenhout_couture …soon we will add the resent events on our website which are among the major events we participated (LB COUTURE ) My Accolade Media Award and to showcase for 50 Shades Of Pink.
One more Amazing event to come for this year InshaAllah ?? God Willing. Listen ? everybody Listen!! THANKS FOR YOUR LOVE AND SUPPORT. MashaAllah Bio yangu na matukio makubwa niliofanya ni mengi mpaka ina chukua kurasa mbili kwenye gazeti. Hilo kwenye gazeti kubwa sana la NY. Tukuio na tunzo niliopata za juzi juzi hatujaweka bado kwenye website … InshaAllah kuna tukio lingine kubwa moja kwa mwaka huu limebaki ??. NAWASHUKURU KWA MAPENZI YENU NA SUPPORT YENU ??” LB  Nami napenda kumpongeza sana Linda kwa mafanikio haya. Kweli Mungu si Athumani, nani alijua kuwa “Fundi cherehani” anaweza kutumia page mbili kuandikiwa Bio! Very inspiring! Ubarikiwe sanaaaaaa! ??

“Nitakulinda nitakupenda na kukuombea pia hiyo ndio kazi yangu.” ~~~Mrs Paul Makonda

“Nitakulinda nitakupenda na kukuombea pia hiyo ndio kazi yangu.Mengine tumwachie yeye aliye juu ayatimize kwa wakati usiogope Mimi ndio askari wa Mungu niko kazini ?❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️?  ” ~~~~~~ Mrs Paul Makonda

Jamani!! Huyu wifi yangu siyo wa dunia hii kwakweli!! Hivi anawezaje kusimama strong na kutembea bila woga wakati shetani na majeshi yake yanamuandama kila kona!!! Kweli Mungu ni muweza wa yote!! Such a phenomenal woman! Great role model to many of us!! May Almighty God richly keep blessing you. ?❤

Happy 6th Wedding anniversary to Mr and Mrs Paul Makonda!

Wishing a very happy 6th Wedding Anniversary to Mr and Mrs Paul Makonda! You guys are truly a symbol of “through thick and thin” for this younger generation! I don’t know how you guys doing but someone better believe there’s God, A LIVING GOD somewhere!! I glorify his Mighty name and wishing you everlasting love and happiness! Happy 6th anniversary! ?

Mh. Paul Makonda: Endelea kuniombea na kunielekeza pale ninapokosea kwani mimi ndiye mwanao wa kwanza hapa duniani.

Namtukuza Mungu kwakunipa Maria, umefanyika baraka na furaha ktk kila nyakati nilizopitia,hadi kufikisha leo miaka 6 ya Ndoa.hujawahi hata siku moja kukata tamaa pale ambapo Dunia ilikata tamaa, hujawahi kusahau upendo wangu hata pale ulipokuwa mbali na familia yako. Umekuwa mnyenyekevu, mpole na mpenda Amani. Mwisho wa yote umenivumilia Kwa nyakati zote huku ukiniombea Kwa machozi na kufunga ili Mungu aendelee kuonekana katika majukumu yangu. Hakika sinachakukulipa zaidi ya kusema asante Kwa Mungu kwakunipa wewe katika maisha yangu. Bado ahadi yangu niliyoitoa tareh 23/10/2011 bado iko palepale. Endelea kuniombea na kunielekeza pale ninapokosea kwani mimi ndiye mwanao wa kwanza hapa duniani.

***Soma ujumbe wa Mr Paul Makonda kwenye 5th anniversary yao hapa ?? (MrAndMrsMakonda)***

Winny Edwin Kihore: BLESSING THROUGH RELATIONSHIPS

BLESSING THROUGH RELATIONSHIPS Did you know that God will bless you through your relationships? He will pour out his favour on you by using the people in your life. He’ll use your friends, family, coworkers and even your spouse. It says in PROVERBS 18:22 “HE WHO FINDS A WIFE … RECEIVES FAVOR FROM THE LORD.” Men , do you realize that your wife is bringing you favor from the Lord.? We should always be thankful for our relationships and not take our loved ones for granted. We should do our best to seek peace and choose love.

One way we can show love is by giving others room to make mistakes. Ladies, the scripture says in First Peter that you are to enjoy your husband.” It does not say that you are to remodel that man! It doesn’t say to try to change him or make him fit your mold. No , let him be who God made him to be and learn to enjoy him. He may have weaknesses. He may do things that you don’t particularly care for, but don’t focus on that. Focus on his good qualities. Don’t fall into the trap of comparing your husband to someone else’s husband.” Well , my husband never brings me flowers like Susie’s husband. They go out on a candlelight dinner every weekend. I don’t know what’s wrong with my husband,” NO, Quit comparing and be grateful for the man God has given you.

If you are married, don’t let little things build up. Don’t let resentment creep in. Before long, resentment and bitterness will bring in strife and division and make you difficult to be around . Instead, I challenge you to find something good, one great quality, about your husband or wife , and then begin to magnify it. Your husband may not be the most romantic man, He may not be the best communicator, but maybe he is a hard worker. Maybe he provides a great living. Well, why don’t you start telling him,” Hey, I appreciate you being such a great provider for our family.” If you will magnify the good, not only will you be happier, but you’ll see that man come up higher in other areas. Remember, you aren’t called to change him; you are called to love him and pray for him. Just focus on being a good example and let God do the rest. Don’t take the people in your life for granted. Magnify the good, choose to forgive and watch how God will poor out his favor on you through your relationships!

HEBREWS 3:13- ” But encourage one another daily, as long as it is called ‘ Today, so that none of you may be hardened by sin’s deceitfulness.