A must watch to all African men!! Hii video niliiona almost two months ago, but nikawa nasubiria a “proper” day kuiweka. Sasa kwakuwa bado tupo kwenye furaha ya maadhimisho ya mtoto wa kike duniani basi nimeona ni vyema kuiweka! Kwakweli huu ni ukweli kabisa! Watoto wa Africa haswa wakike wamewekwa kwenye “pressure” of how to become a good citizens, great mothers, wives, sisters, and aunties bila kujua kuwa it always takes two to tangle!! Unakuta mtoto wa kike very well organized mentally, spiritually,  physically, na hata financially lakini anaangukia kwenye mikono ya mwanume asiye jielewa kabisa!! Mnyanyasaji na mambo mengi ambayo yanafanya maisha yao kutokuwa na furaha! A totally unprepared man for familyhood!! Na ukijaribu kuuliza hawa wadada utasikia ma’am! “All men are the same”!! Hivyo hakuwa na chaguo zaidi ya ku settle down for less!! ………Wazazi, waleeni vijana wenu ukijua kuwa kesho atakuwa mume wa mtu, mmoja ya wana jumuiya hivyo lazima awe teyari kuwa good citizen! Kuwa na hela doesn’t make someone a good citizen or good husband tabia yake na malezi ndio vitaeleza huyo kijana wako ni mtu wa namna gani! Nimeona vijana wenye pesa na ni wanyanyasaji wa wanawake mpaka inaogopesha! Wengine ni rapists and molesters! Tuwalee watoto katika njia ipasayo ili wasiwe mzigo kwa wengine na taifa analo ishi ni jukumu lako wewe kama mzazi!