Father and daughter moment

Screenshot_2016-05-13-14-49-37-1Dmk and his beautiful daughter….. That baby will run the c-i-t-y crazy so badly ! She’s adorable! God protect her!

Hongera sana Diamond!

Screenshot_2016-05-20-08-30-56-1Well! well! well! Hongera sana Mtoto wa Tandale,  umefanya mambo tena! Kwa mara ya pili unaiingiza Tanzania ndani ya BET Awards! Proud of you! Ubarikiwe sana sana, keep it up the good job! ????

Please visit maisafari.com

FB_IMG_1463588816922Wapendwa, kuna picha nyingi mpya huko kwa the Kakoschkes’ family blog. Please tembelea www.maisafari.com ukaione dunia katika picha ?

A word of wisdom

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Pumzika kwa amani bibi Nyagoro

FB_IMG_1463748795292Pumzika katika amani ya Bwana bibi yetu  Nyagoro Chuche . You will dearly be missed with all of us. Poleni sana shangazi zangu, baba zangu, na binamu zangu wote. …..Bwana alitoa na Bwana ametwaa jina lake lihimidiwe milele zote ?

Mother and son moment

FB_IMG_1463749022873“Mama’s second leg, readly available at his mum’s disposal for an helping hand. In counting my blessings you always appear more than once my beloved Mzira. Thank Lord for the blessings.” Dr. Modesta ……

2015-04-22 21.13.43Mmependeza sana mtu na mamaye. Maneno matamu na mazito hayo. So touchy. Mbarikiwe sanaaaaaa!

Many Christian ladies want a man that “knows where he is going”…. but God’s men usually don’t have a clue!

**9 REASONS WHY CHRISTIAN SINGLES LADIES can’t FIND THEIR BOAZ, DAVID or JOSEPH** FB_IMG_1463569318594This article is very long but worthy the read and mainly for mature Christian single women because Girls might get offended or not understand but a mature Christian woman will probably get it and take the knowledge. The tone may be a bit direct not because I am brash but because I am writing to Women not girls. All your single girlfriends AND male friends should read this. FB_IMG_1463431832624So here we go. Why can’t our wonderful Christian sisters find their Boaz, David or Joseph?

1. Many Christian ladies want a man that “knows where he is going”… but God’s men usually don’t have a clue: Think about that for a moment. Think through the Bible…all the great men that had relationships with God and who he used and blessed….they usually didn’t have a clue about where they were going and (here is the even crazier part) even if they had a clue, their lives for a long time did not reflect that great place God said he was taking them. Just think about it. All the way from Abraham …going to a land he did not know; Joseph having a dream that people would bow down to him but became a slave and then a prisoner; David who was anointed to be King and then lived the next 15 years in the wilderness as a fugitive; Peter the great fisher of men who was barely able to catch fish. These men would have had a rough time finding a wife today. Could you imagine?

Abraham calling sister Sarah aside after church and saying “Errrmmm Sarah you know I love you right? Soooo God wants to take us somewhere …but I have no idea where. Wanna marry me and come?”

David too. “Look baby…I really care about you and want to spend the rest of my life taking care of you… In fact, I’ve just been anointed King…buuutttt I’m kinda living in the bushes right now and on the run from the King I’m supposed to replace.”

Or Joseph. “Look Jill, God has shown me many dreams that people will bow down to me and I’ll be a great leader. But right now I wash dishes in Potiphar’s house and I’m a slave boy there”

God’s men don’t “always” have a direction or know the details. So stop looking for men who have it all figured out!

Here is the solution though…..here is the good news. Here is what you SHOULD be looking for: Men who can be LED by God. (Rom 8:14) Don’t look for a man who already has the best laid plans. Look for one who knows how to follow directions from the best planner. The Boaz, David or Joseph kind of man may not know exactly where he is going but he knows how to follow God.

2. Many ladies approach relationships from the perspective of “Low Risk, High Reward”: Meaning, they want to get the absolute best man with the least amount of risk. (And I’m not just talking about finances here)They don’t want to put themselves out there at all.

They want the man to take ALL the risks…to be utterly convinced he wants to be with them before they open up about who they really are. You know who you are…You act like YOU are the ONLY prize in the equation. He doesn’t know anything about your background but you turned into a private investigator to make sure he is good enough for you. You are financially irresponsible and an impulsive spender, you’re spending insane percentages of your income on your hair, shoes, bags, and your “package” but you want a man who knows how to make and keep money. You have not grown your faith or prayer life to where it needs to be but you want a demon chasing, tongue speaking, Bible spitting warrior of a husband…because “he is the leader of the home”.

You’ve dated a bunch of losers that didn’t work out but he is no good because he has had several failed relationships too? You want to see him as he is but you cover yourself up in perfectly filtered Instagram pictures, hair extensions, push up bras, makeup and layers of stuff that make it impossible to see who you really are. You are lazy with not much follow-through but you want a man who can stay up all night working on a project. If he put that spotlight on you, would YOU make the cut?

In essence, many Christian ladies say they have faith but they don’t. They say that God is their source but they are lying. They say that they trust God’s will for their future but they are lying. They don’t. They put their trust in a man. What kind of job he has/can get. How much he is making or can make. They want to make sure he has the “ability to provide”. They want him to have his life utterly figured out…

But I have met many great men who haven’t found the employment they have the potential to get. I have met many others who were living it up until the economy crashed. I have met some who had it all but God insisted they give it up to go and further the gospel. If you want a Boaz, David or Joseph, you’re going to have to be ok not having everything perfectly figured out

3. Many ladies forget that good Christian men look for women who share similar non-romantic, non-spiritual values: Sure he should be romantic and sure he must share those spiritual values but eerrmmm ladies…these Christian brothers are looking for those other character traits as well that speak to the OPERATION of your possible lives together. Dependability, thriftiness, work ethic, time management, hard work, follow-through and so on.

One of the first things we learn about Ruth for example, was her work ethic. ( Ruth chapter 2). She knew how to pull her hair back, forget about her nails, roll up her sleeves and get on the grind. She worked really hard and even when she got the attention of the “well established guy with the sensitive heart” she didn’t stop working. She took the break that he offered her and went back to work. That’s how you earn a man’s respect…when you can show him that what he HAS does not define who you are.

Here is the icing on that cake. Just because Ruth could get down and work, didn’t mean she couldn’t look pretty and tidy up (Ruth 3:3) The Boaz, David or Joseph kind of man knows it takes a lot more than butterflies and date nights to fulfill God’s mandate for his family.

4. Many ladies pre-qualify their leads: This is one of the most CRITICAL reasons. The Boaz, David or Joseph kind of man …spends a long time NOT looking like the Boaz, David or Joseph the world will eventually come to know.

5. Good Christian men know their worth too and don’t want to settle either: Yea ladies…men are understanding their worth a bit more too. Christian men are getting more and more comfortable attending relationship seminars and getting information about seeking God’s face for a wife. They are realizing how powerful of an impact a wife has on the outcome of their lives and ministry, and they are spending more time trying to see what is beneath the surface. They know that a woman can make or break everything. They realize that a woman’s desires can accelerate him towards purpose or derail him.

They are praying more and they are realizing that while you still remain a prize, they too are precious in God’s eyes and want to do right by Him. They are realizing that a wife can make or break a man. Yes they are praying for a Ruth but they are also praying against Delilah as well. The Boaz, David or Joseph kind of man knows his worth too.

6. Many Christian ladies have no testimony with men: A few years ago, an older friend (a number of years older than me) came up to me after a church program and asked me about a lady in my church. Who she was and what she was like as a person. I didn’t stop talking for minutes. They were married about a year later.

Same thing happened to Ruth. (Ruth Chapter 2 from Vs 3) Boaz came back from a trip, saw Ruth and asked his Foreman “Who is that and who does she belong to”, to which the foreman answered and gave a fantastic testimony of her character. (See Boaz’s response in Vs 11)

Here is a secret ladies, you know how you like a guy and try to keep it to yourself until your girlfriends force a confession out of you? We guys don’t do that. The moment we think we are interested in you, we are telling someone and we are asking around about you….and we are asking our MALE friends/mentors. Because we know they will tell us like it is and of course won’t spread it all around church and make things suddenly awkward or cause all the sisters to start giving the dirty eye next Sunday. Bro code.

The truth is that even Christian ladies can be toxic sometimes when it comes to how they treat men who they don’t consider a prospect. You forget that when the real prospect comes and is interested in you, he will ask other men…some who may never have approached you but who have watched you from afar, and yes some who may have had an interest in you but you didn’t like. How did you handle those situations? (You totally need to read that article link above…especially the 2nd part of that series)

The Boaz, David or Joseph kind of man looks deeper than the surface beauty. They look for testimonies of the woman’s character

7. Many Christian women want a Proverbs 31 Man: That’s not a typo. Pick up your Bible and read Proverbs 31 again with fresh eyes… from the perspective of the character of that woman…and you will see that those qualities are the ones that many women are looking for in a man when they should be busy developing those qualities themselves.

Single Christian men are reading that passage looking for those qualities in a woman, and women are putting that passage down and instead looking for those qualities in a man. The Boaz, David or Joseph Kind of man has read Proverbs 31 and wants her.

8. Many Christian ladies want to be married but they are not truly ready to be led: They want to marry a boyfriend but not a husband. They want only a partner but not a leader. They want an emotional prenup that things will always be 50:50. They say they will concede authority to God Himself but in their heart, they are not willing to be led by his representative in the home. What I am about to say next I say with the utmost respect to women.

Men were created to lead at home. Now, with that leadership comes accountability to God meaning that God holds him accountable and will punish him first for bad leadership. But a man cannot be accountable for a woman he can’t lead…. and a Christian man does not want to be over anything he can’t be accountable to God about. The Boaz, David or Joseph kind of man is a great servant leader like Jesus Christ…but he is a born leader and he knows it

9. Many young married Christian women are painting a fairytale picture of marriage to their single ladies! Many young married women are doing a major disservice to single women. These young married women create a fairytale picture of weddings and marriage to their single friends. They love being the center of attention and talk up how dreamy it is. Perfect Instagram photos, perfect wedding photos, expensive glamorous weddings, perfect Facebook updates, photos and so on. Is there anything wrong with that? No. It would just help a lot more when married young women keep it real with their sisters and tell them that the wedding day does not make the marriage. It would help a whole lot more if they sit their single friends down and talk about the importance of a praying wife, a strong wife, a submissive wife (to a Godly man) and how contrary to popular opinion, the faith of a wife is both a weapon for the family and its defense as well. Instead, they get their single sisters all dreamy eyed and waiting for a perfect story and a perfect man…waiting for KalEl from planet Krypton with the big “S” on his chest and a red cape, when they should look at Clark Kent from Planet earth.

The Boaz, David or Joseph kind of man knows that the wedding is not the marriage and doesn’t want to create an impression he can’t maintain.

Sisters, God has a beautiful story of love written for you. Am I saying settle? No way. But I am saying look at these men through the eyes of Christ. Get your pride out of the way. Don’t define your marital success by how well your wedding day or “lifestyle” stacks up with other women. Most importantly, start seeing yourself as a true (not just perceived) gift from God that can bring God’s favor and blessings into your husband’s life because that’s what you are. So work to BECOME that and I truly truly wish you a love-filled, Christ centered happy marriage when it does happen

Credit: Get-inspired by Tysha

It is time to stand up & show our UNITY: Justice for Andrew Sanga

Kifo cha DREW kimeacha maswali mengi kuliko majibu. FB_IMG_1462480803936Mtoto wetu Zoey tutampa majibu gani kwa haya maswali???

  1. Je kama Jumuiya tulisimama kupata Justice ya baba yake ?
  2. Je tupo salama as Community?

It is time to stand up  & show our UNITY. FB_IMG_1461341455940

Neno: *FEAR* ??

?? *F*orget *E*verything *A*nd *R*un

       ——-OR——–

?? *F*ace *E*verything *A*nd *R*ISE

Our community has chosen to *RISE*

I ask the community to stand up. JUSTICE for DREW❗ili wahusika wapatikane❗ FB_IMG_1461361520089Tunaomba ushirikiano wenu na kujitokeza kwa wingi Saturday  {May/21/2016} FB_IMG_1461258477771

By: Mayocha. THC President

Still a work in progress!

2016-05-18 06.45.28Kwa mara ya kwanza toka nizaliwe siku ya jana niliweza beba Mbwa! Mimi napenda wanyama lakini huwa nawatizama kwa mbali tuu. Sasa nimekuwa nikisikia kuwa wanyama ni marafiki wazuri sana kwa binadamu hivyo nami nimeamua kujifunza kuwapenda wanyama to the personal space level!2016-05-18 06.48.14Nyumbani kwetu  (Bongoland) siku zote kuna Mbwa, japo huwa anatunzwa vizuri lakini sijawahi hata kuwasogelea karibu ? hivyo hii was a very good experience  ……… umeona Tshirt yangu ilivyo andikwa eeh ?? Yap! Don’t mess with us! Bado nasubiria huyu Muhaya anipeleke kupanda Farasi ??? LOL! 2016-05-18 06.49.50Mwanangu yeye anapenda sana hawa Mbwa, basi jana akaniuluza kama this will help her to get a dog?   Nikamwambia “not sure”! I am working in progress!

Kutoka Facebook

FB_IMG_1463567659331Mr and Mrs Huckins….. looking good, naona ilikuwa mambo ya White party huko Atlanta, Georgia FB_IMG_1463492024184-1pendeza sana. …mbarikiwe wote

“I Love You Dad”!

Ni kama story lalini kunajambo lakujifunza:

Ms Naila Andrew
Ms Naila Andrew

Baba mmoja alikuwa anaosha gari lake jipya, mwanae mdogo wa miaka 5 akalichora gari ubavuni  na jiwe. Baba alivyomwona mtoto anachora akakurupuka na kumbana mkono kwa plaiz ikapelekea vidole 3 kuharibika. Wakiwa hosptal mtoto akatakiwa akatwe vidole 3, mtoto akamuangalia baba yake; akamuuliza,vitarudi? Baba akaumia sana, akarudi kwenye gari aone mtoto kachora nini? akakuta kaandika “I LOVE YOU DADY”.

Kanuni ya maisha ni watu wapendane na vitu vitumiwe, lkn tatizo la walimwengu wa leo, tunapenda vitu kuliko UTU!

 

“My husband to be”

Sandra Mushi
Sandra Mushi

“My God! You will make such a beautiful bride!” The bridal shop sales lady exclaims as I come out of the dressing room. “You look absolutely beautiful!”

I try to blush and giggle, “aksante.”

“Your husband to be must be ecstatic!”

I try another giggle.

“So where is he from, if I may ask?”

“Erm. Sijui …”

“What do you mean hujui?”

“I don’t know.”

“Have you not met his family? Been to his place? Have you not done the mahari thing?” In naked panic questions pour out of the sales lady’s mouth.

“No. Nl. And my family does not do mahari.”

“You have not met his family? Is he not from here?”

“I don’t know.”

“You don’t know where he is from?”

“No.”

“You don’t care to know?”

“I do.”

“Sasa?”

“We have not had a chance to talk about it yet.”

“Ain’t you getting married next month?”

“Yes. June 30th.” I shift in the bridal dress. Much as I am enjoying the drilling, the dress is now making me feel rather hot.

“Sasa? Why have you not talked? Don’t you think its important to know? Atleast his family?”

“We have not yet met.”

“Who?”

“My husband to be.”

Stares as her brows slowly bunch up together into a frown. And takes a step back. And another.

??????

“Mapenzi kamwe hayawezi kuleta chakula mezani au kulipa bili”

Mke mwema havutwi kwa mwanaume kwa pesa zake au cheo chake, mke mwema huhitaji MUDA, UAMINIFU, MAPENZI, KUJIAMINI NA UCHAPAKAZI.  FB_IMG_1463431832624Mapenzi kamwe hayawezi kuleta chakula mezani au kulipa bili, inahitajika pesa, ila penye upendo pana matumaini na utulivu wa nafsi, hivyo ni rahisi kuwa na moyo wa kutafuta PESA. True or False?

2015-04-22 21.13.43Wapendwa naomba mnisamehe sana. Huyu kaka niona hii status yake kwa Facebook ya mtu ambaye ali share. Tatizo nimesaha jina nimejaribu kukumbuka lakini wapi ?? please kama utasoma hapa naomba uniambie jina lako. Au kama mtu unamfahamu please naomba mfikishie ujumbe ?

Siku ya Mawasiliano na habari duniani

FB_IMG_1463492347739Kheri ya siku ya Mawasiliano na Habari kwa wana habari wote na wataalam wa mawasiliano dunia kote. Asanteni sana kwa kazi nzuri mnayo fanya ya kutuhabarisha, kutuelimisha, na kutukumbusha wajibu wetu sisi kama raia wa hii dunia. Asante sana. Mbarikiwe mno FB_IMG_1463492331170

A word of wisdom

The day you decide to let go of anger, life will begin to get a lot more easier. The day you decide to embrace forgiveness and really let the past remain the past, your life will truly start heading in a more positive direction. Forgiveness will reward you and bless you in ways that you never thought possible. See when you don’t forgive, you put up barriers between you and your blessings. You block your own path to having who you need and what you need out of life. Your heart has to be free of tension, resentment, bitterness and anything else that will poison your mood in a negative way. Forgive yourself and forgive other people. We only get one shot at trying to live this life the best way that we know how. Don’t block your blessings because you can’t let things go.

Source: One of THC members 

Kutoka Facebook

FB_IMG_1463407704585-1Nimependa sana hii picha ya dada yangu Tuma. Kapendeza sana. Napia leo ni siku yake ya kuzaliwa, hivyo naomba nimtakie kheri na furaha ya siku ya kuzaliwa kwakwe. Ubarikiwe sana milele zote……..

Nampenda sana huyu dada yangu kwani anahekima sana, siyo mtu wa magroup, na wala si “Nyumbu”! Yani hajashikiwa akili na marafiki au watu baki. Maamuzi yake huyafanya kulingana na kile anachokijua kuwa ni ukweli na sahihi. Sio kama baadhi ya watu ambao wao hawawezi kutafakari na kuchuja kabla ya kufanya maamuzi. Ni mtu mwenye msimamo wake binafsi kwani hapendi kujihusisha na chuki zisizokuwa na msingi. Na kwasababu hiyo amekuwa msaada mkubwa sana kwangu mimi! Amenifariji sana na kunipa moyo siku zote. Kwakweli namshukuru sana Mungu kwa kunipa watu kama dada Tuma…… sina cha kumlipa bali namuombea mibaraka yote toka Mbinguni kwa Mungu.

Happy birthday my darling sister, I love you big!❤❤❤ ?

Soma zaidi kuhusu dada Tuma hapa

I am so getting married

So I’m getting MARRIED??️!

June 30, 2016!

Sandra Mushi
Sandra Mushi

I know it’s sudden, but when you know you know. Many of you have been wondering why I have lost weight. Its so I fit perfectly in that wedding dress. And have I found a pretty one!

Anyway, we’ve kept it very quiet, so please don’t take it personally, if you did not know. Since it’s right around the corner, we’re not planning a big wedding. We will be inviting some family and a few close friends. Invitations will be mailed out soon, and we would really appreciate your presence on our special day.

Please no need to bring gifts. Just bring someone I can get married to.

???????? start your day with a smile from Sandra Mushi

Hot shot of the day

FB_IMG_1463314070971Gorgeous! Pendeza sana Mwanamitindo wa kimataifa Miriam Odemba ❤❤❤

Mother and son moment

FB_IMG_1463284985772#NaniKamaMama Mrs Lyimo with her little soldier Amani Lyimo on Mother’s Day.FB_IMG_1463284969590giving him a little kiss before walking on the redcarpet FB_IMG_1463284997646so beautiful! Ubarikiwe sana mama mwema!…. Mama Aika I love your dreess. Mlipendeza mno FB_IMG_1463018526102wazazi wote mnaosoma hii blog naomba msome ujumbe hapo ☝ ………. ni muhimu sana kuwaonyesha watoto upendo. Usimfananishe mtoto wako na mtoto mwingine yoyote yule. Kwani utakua unamkosea sana na kumnyima haki yake ya kuwa yeye kama yeye sababu wewe unataka awe kama fulani!

Jifunze kumpenda mwanao na kumjenga kifikra ili aweze kuishi maisha bila shida na aweze kupenda watu wengine kwani upendo mtu hufunzwa toka kwao na si barabarani! …….. wamama wafundisheni vijana wenu kuheshimu na kulinda wanawake. Teach them how to be a gentleman, a good father, and the best husband. Muwaambie kuwa wanawake siyo object or property fulani, hapana! Wanawake ni viumbe vyenye thamani vinavyo takiwa kuthaminiwa sana kwani hata mama zao nao ni wanawake vile vile!….Hata kama wewe ni single mother still you can raise a good man if you want to!

Matukio katika picha: “Blended But Not Broken”!

FB_IMG_1463284485104Designer wa kimataifa Linda Bezuidenhout  akiwa amependeza sana kwenye tukio la ufunguzi rasmi wa uuzwaji wa kitabu cha “Blended But Not Broken” cha mwanadada maharufu sana jijini Atlanta, Georgia ajulikanaye kama Sasha the Diva! Ambaye pia ni mtangazaji wa radio (Kiss 104 FM) maarufu sana hapo hapo Atlanta……. kama kawaida yake Linda alikuwa amevalia mavazi mazuri ya LB designs ambayo amebuni na kushona  yeye mwenyewe. Nywele zake na makeup alipambwa na celebrity stylist MUA @stylesby_crave ….. alipendeza sana  FB_IMG_1463284413293Linda pamoja na mumewe Mr Mali Kimesera walikuwa moja ya watu muhimu walio alikwa katika hafla hiyo ambayo ilifanyika siku ya tarehe 12, May, 2016 kwenye ukumbi wa The Ventana Room, downtown, Atlanta, Georgia. … pichani ni muhusika mkuu wa siku hiyo Sasha the Diva  (ambaye pia ni mteja mkuu wa LB) pamoja na Mr and Mrs Mali Kimesera. FB_IMG_1463284427733Hapa Mr and Mrs Mali Kimesera wakiwa na Mayor wa jiji la Atlanta bwana Kasim Reed wakati wa ufunguzi wa kitabu hicho “Blended But Not Broken” cha Sasha the Diva of Kiss 104 FM.  FB_IMG_1463284626068FB_IMG_1463284504183FB_IMG_1463284648514FB_IMG_1463284438431Ms LB pamoja na Mayor Mr. Kasim Reed FB_IMG_1463284497788Picha nzuri sana. Walipendeza mno!…… Picha zote na  @jaxonphotogroup 

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