yap! Ukitaka title kama baba / kaka/ babu / mama n.k lazima ukubali na mambo yote yanayo kuja nayo. Wahenga wanasema “ukipenda boga sharti upende na uwa lake”! …….. Nakumbuka Latoya Jackson (dada yake na marehemu  Michael Jackson) alitaka ku adopt mtoto. Wakampa test ya ku babysit watoto wawili  (2 babies) kwa masaa 12 ili kujua kama kweli yupo teyari kuwa mama. Ndani ya masaa mawili akasema she is surely not ready ??? akasema its too much work she can’t do it  ??  (tazama video ?)…………….. (Pichani ni babu na wajukuu zake pamoja na mwanae wote wanataka kukaa na babu )

??? hapa kavalishwa kofia na Blessing  lol! Umeneja mwisho getini nyumbani ni baba / babu tuu ??? hapa na mjukuu wajina wake, ni mtoto wa mdogo wangu.  Mdogo wangu alikuwa ananyonya kidole sana. Amenyonya mpaka anamiaka karibia 8 ndo akaacha. Naona mtoto wake naye anatabia hiyo ?? I hope itakwisha soon

Ujumbe: respect wazazi wetu haswa single parents. Wahenga walisema “kulea mimba si kazi kazi kulea mwana”! I did it one time, I’m done with it! Its time to do me ??