“Why Women Need Men Who Challenge Them  Most mature women are financially stable; they have academic and book sense; and over 70% of them are holding down the household as single parents. Although a man’s help would be appreciated, for many established women, money and help with the kids is not a “NEED”!

What mature and intelligent women long for is quality companionship and stimulating conversation with a real man who leads by example, brings resources to the table — that means intellectual, financial, and life experience.

As a man, it’s not about being in charge or being right, it’s about making your partner feel secure and challenging her to see the world from a different perspective. We can’t beat our chests and raise our voices believing this is the way to lead. We must lead by our example and strength of character. Only an insecure man would expect a woman to submit to his way of thinking when he hasn’t accomplished anything with those thoughts.

And only a woman who is a fool would follow a man who talks a good game but doesn’t have anything to show for it. As I said earlier, most women don’t need a man but they definitely want a good one and a strong one.

To put it frankly, a woman can go to the sperm bank to make a baby, but they’ll never create a device that can stimulate a woman’s mind like engaging in a conversation with a man of depth and intelligence.” ~ Michael Baisden…..Link: http://bit.ly/1ajgGIi

***Please note that Dr Mengi na waridi la roho yake has no directly connection with the story! Just love the pic*****